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Dear Ralph,

  I'm a student at a school far from my village and my family is very poor, so I work hard to prepare for my future in a competitive society. Every day I get into my books because I want much knowledge. Besides, I'm not a communicative student, and I would like to stay alone to think what I want and enjoy myself. But I can't get along with my classmates, though I try. I have no friend here. Sometimes I ask classmates for information or want to talk to them, but they don't answer. You know society won't accept an uncommunicative person. What should I do?

  Ji Jun, Hubei

  

  Dear Ji Jun,

  Keep studying and looking towards the future. If you are trying to make friends but failing, you probably need to change only your style of communication, not how much time you spend. Hints: Listen as much as you talk, join conversations about topics that don't immediately interest you and laugh and smile to punctuate other people's words. Buy your roommates some sodas or a new tape you can all listen to at night. Then, after a few months, see if you have a friend or two.

中国科学技术大学
继续教育学院

2005-11-22

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